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Een pleidooi voor radicale liefde : naar een ethiek van kwetsbaarheid

(2019) TIJDSCHRIFT VOOR GENDERSTUDIES. 21(4). p.307-324
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In this paper I make an analysis of the dominant ideas on love in Belgian society, based on the narratives of men and women in (predominantly heterosexual) non-monogamous relationships. The narratives of these men and women show that although their practices do not conform to the ideal of the monogamous couple relationship, they often reproduce the gendered power relations inherent in the romantic love complex, thereby privileging the doctrine of detached individualism and invulnerability over notions of responsibility and care. Building on feminist critiques of the romantic love complex, this paper questions the subversive potential of these non-monogamous lifestyles as they seemingly fail to adequately challenge underlying patriarchal structures and mechanisms. The paper proposes an ethics of intersubjective vulnerability, which is defined by both a critical disposition and responsiveness to our own vulnerability and the vulnerability of others, as a prerequisite for radically rethinking love.
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anthropology, dating, feminist theory, love, non-monogamy, relationships, romantic love complex, vulnerability

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De Graeve, Katrien. 2019. “Een Pleidooi Voor Radicale Liefde : Naar Een Ethiek Van Kwetsbaarheid.” Tijdschrift Voor Genderstudies 21 (4): 307–324.
APA
De Graeve, K. (2019). Een pleidooi voor radicale liefde : naar een ethiek van kwetsbaarheid. TIJDSCHRIFT VOOR GENDERSTUDIES, 21(4), 307–324.
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De Graeve K. Een pleidooi voor radicale liefde : naar een ethiek van kwetsbaarheid. TIJDSCHRIFT VOOR GENDERSTUDIES. Amsterdam University Press; 2019;21(4):307–24.
MLA
De Graeve, Katrien. “Een Pleidooi Voor Radicale Liefde : Naar Een Ethiek Van Kwetsbaarheid.” TIJDSCHRIFT VOOR GENDERSTUDIES 21.4 (2019): 307–324. Print.
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  abstract     = {In this paper I make an analysis of the dominant ideas on love in Belgian society, based on the narratives of men and women in (predominantly heterosexual) non-monogamous relationships. The narratives of these men and women show that although their practices do not conform to the ideal of the monogamous couple relationship, they often reproduce the gendered power relations inherent in the romantic love complex, thereby privileging the doctrine of detached individualism and invulnerability over notions of responsibility and care. Building on feminist critiques of the romantic love complex, this paper questions the subversive potential of these non-monogamous lifestyles as they seemingly fail to adequately challenge underlying patriarchal structures and mechanisms. The paper proposes an ethics of intersubjective vulnerability, which is defined by both a critical disposition and responsiveness to our own vulnerability and the vulnerability of others, as a prerequisite for radically rethinking love. },
  author       = {De Graeve, Katrien},
  issn         = {1388-3186},
  journal      = {TIJDSCHRIFT VOOR GENDERSTUDIES},
  keywords     = {anthropology,dating,feminist theory,love,non-monogamy,relationships,romantic love complex,vulnerability},
  language     = {dut},
  number       = {4},
  pages        = {307--324},
  publisher    = {Amsterdam University Press},
  title        = {Een pleidooi voor radicale liefde : naar een ethiek van kwetsbaarheid},
  url          = {http://dx.doi.org/10.5117/tvgn2018.4.002.grae},
  volume       = {21},
  year         = {2019},
}

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