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‘No expectations’: straight men's sexual and moral identity-making in non-monogamous dating

(2019) SEXUALITIES. 22(5-6). p.844-859
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This article juxtaposes the discursive strategies of two groups of heterosexual men in the context of non-monogamous internet-mediated dating in Belgium, notably men who are open about their extra-dyadic sexual practices and 'cheating' men. The analysis shows that regardless of the men's use of openness or discretion to construct narratives of sexual identity, morality and care, their accounts seem to be deeply intertwined with monogamist and gendered ideas on sex, care and commitment, which serves to define a largely uncaring and consumeristic dating culture. The article argues that attentiveness to power inequalities should be the main focus of 'ethical' non-monogamy.
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Gender Studies, Anthropology, Gender inequalities, internet dating, masculinity, openness, non-monogamy

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De Graeve, Katrien. “‘No Expectations’: Straight Men’s Sexual and Moral Identity-Making in Non-Monogamous Dating.” SEXUALITIES, vol. 22, no. 5–6, SAGE, 2019, pp. 844–59, doi:10.1177/1363460718779946.
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De Graeve, K. (2019). “No expectations”: straight men’s sexual and moral identity-making in non-monogamous dating. SEXUALITIES, 22(5–6), 844–859. https://doi.org/10.1177/1363460718779946
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De Graeve, Katrien. 2019. “‘No Expectations’: Straight Men’s Sexual and Moral Identity-Making in Non-Monogamous Dating.” SEXUALITIES 22 (5–6): 844–59. https://doi.org/10.1177/1363460718779946.
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De Graeve, Katrien. 2019. “‘No Expectations’: Straight Men’s Sexual and Moral Identity-Making in Non-Monogamous Dating.” SEXUALITIES 22 (5–6): 844–859. doi:10.1177/1363460718779946.
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De Graeve K. “No expectations”: straight men’s sexual and moral identity-making in non-monogamous dating. SEXUALITIES. 2019;22(5–6):844–59.
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K. De Graeve, “‘No expectations’: straight men’s sexual and moral identity-making in non-monogamous dating,” SEXUALITIES, vol. 22, no. 5–6, pp. 844–859, 2019.
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